June 26, 2012 § Leave a comment
A research carried out lately has shown that old people who daily meet with other people are healthier, agile, blithe, and chirpy as compared to the ones cornered by their own kith and kin. This is, indeed, a well admitted fact that man is a social animal, and he only finds pleasure in fraternizing with other people
Last week I was at lunch with one of my friend, during chit chat we discussed about parents also ,after lunch when I was coming back to home ,during the way I just recalled that news what I read in famous Danish news (DR) a couple of days before it was some thing like that :
A 64-year-old men his name Egon Hansen was left lying in the bedroom of his sheltered home in near Næstved (a place in Copenhagen) for almost a month after he was found dead. It was only after 29 days that the municipal home-care service realised that they had forgotten about him. He had a only one niece in their family,who is living some where else in denmark.you can find that news link blow:
Its so weird news to me actually ,I did,t grew up in western society,any way
There are many cases of neglect in the West.We can find myriad examples of the ilk. The concept of ‘old homes’ in the west is a stain on humanity. People who have been rendering services to the society throughout their lives and have been catering to the sustenance of their respective families deserve accolades, not banishment.
Being a part of this society, it is incumbent on every one of us to help the old people who are leading their lives in misery and dismay. All they demand is reverence and proper time. Some words of comfort, a warm hug, a tap on the back and any such gesture which can give them the impression that they are still important for us can keep them in high spirits. Though moroseness tends to come with senility, but if dealt properly; one can observe a stark difference.
In short it’s inhumane to abandon old people. They are an invaluable asset to this society. you can say they graduated with out google and Wikipedia, They are the ones who are responsible for our current positions. It was their endeavor which made us what we brag of today.
Old age is not all pain and loss. It has its joys. Grand children lighten up one’s life, without the weight of responsibilities. In old age, cares are not as burdensome, because one is aware of one’s limited time. Also one is not bitten by the competitive spirit; not to the same extent as in the days past. One can enjoy contemplative moments and revel in the present. Music and poetry are all the more engrossing. Prayers are a solace. Now the internet has vastly expanded these possibilities. It is an inexhaustible source of information and interconnections. Long lost friends and relatives can be found. Yet the key for peaceful old age is the readjusting of one’s expectations and cultivation of new interests and purposes.
Every relation is described by the level of closeness but blood-relation is something which needs no words to describe. Though, with today’s busy life, it’s hard to stay close to your parents. Some time, small-small things in life bring big changes and keeps every relation close and loving.
We can make our parents happy in following way:
Try to understand their feelings, they loved us even when we keep on crying whole night, make them miss their parties, make home a mess or keep shouting whole day. They loved us without any conditions. Sometimes they want us to live life their way but the reason behind it is to make our future and life safe and happy. Try to think in a matured way and from our parent’s point of view.
There is nothing wrong in showing respect to our parents. It will only bring happiness to their face. Even if we don’t agree with their thinking, try to make them understand politely. Don’t use harsh words on them, which make them unhappy or they feel hurt.
If we will try to look into our parent’s heart, we will understand that they feel lonely if we avoid them. As our parent’s age, they start expecting more from their children. Thus, try to take some time for your parents. Take them to some family get together, picnic or just spend time at home with lots of fun and positive energy around.
Always celebrate parent’s birthdays or special events, it may be some achievements and celebrate it with lots of love. We can take them out for dinner, buy some gifts or just spend this special moment with them and make them realize that you care for them.
Many of the youngsters have got the habit of conversing with their parents in a rude way. Whatever might be your problem with your parents, try to resolve it peacefully. Discussing a problem peacefully solves it more quickly. Our parents will also be glad to see their child as polite and well mannered.
Elderly feel deprived when family members fail to communicate with them. No matter how busy we are, don’t forget to take out some time for your parents. Make it a point to go to their room and have a chat with them. We can ask them small things like how did they spend their day, are they taking medicines regularly or not. Our five minutes can make huge difference in their lives.
Many people are of the view that old people are unable to make proper judgment. Remember our parents have greater wealth of knowledge and experiences than us. Whenever we have an important decision to make, make it a point that we have to respect and consider their views too.
We should give them our love. Do well in studies to make our parents proud of us. We should try to pay back what our parents do for us. Like when they cook for us, wash our clothes, buy new clothes for us, work for us, help us in education and they give us their love. We are very lucky because some children’s don’t have caring parents like our parents. So be good to your parents.If we are good to our parents, when we grow up our kids will be good to us. If we are bad to our parents, our children will do the same with us and we do not want to expect it from our children.. So if we are good to them it’s good for us too not only our parents. This is not fair because parents give us whole life they educate us and we must not forget that what we are doing with our parents, Remember that if you fail to keep your parents happy, you will feel like a failure. So keep your parents happy and set a good example for your kids!
Remember!Never ignore ever two people in the world,
One who loose every thing to make you win (your father)
&, You win every thing, just because of her prayer (your mother)
June 17, 2012 § Leave a comment
Yesterday i watched one Thai advertise 3 minutes video it,s kind a construction company advertise,off course you can find that small video on above link
This story is bit similar a true story which happened in Japan.once i read that story in the english version of Japanese news paper,almost 2 years ago that story suddenly come in to mind after watching this video i am going to Share a story first,
In order to renovate the house, someone in Japan breaks open the wall. Japanese houses normally have a hollow space between the wooden walls. When tearing down the walls, he found that there was a lizard stuck there because a nail from outside hammered into one of its feet. He sees this, feels pity, and at the same time curious, as when he checked the nail, it was nailed 10 years ago when the house was first built. What happened? The lizard has survived in such position for 10 years!!!!!!! !!! In a dark wall partition for 10 years without moving, it is impossible and mind-boggling. Then he wondered how this lizard survived for 10 years!!! Without moving a single step–since its foot was nailed! So he stopped his work and observed the lizard, what it has been doing, and what and how it has been eating. Later, not knowing from where it came appears another lizard, with food in its mouth. Ah! He was stunned and touched deeply. For the lizard that was stuck by nail, another lizard has been feeding it for the past 10 years..
So,that was a story ,……….. Imagine? It has been doing that untiringly for 10 long years, without giving up hope on its partner. Think, will u do that to your partner? Think that will you do it to your Mom who brought you after a big struggle of nine long months?
Or at least to your Dad, Friends, Co-workers, Friends,brothers and Sisters? Imagine what a small creature can do that a creature blessed with a brilliant mind can’t.
As information and communication technology advances, our access to information becomes faster and faster.
But the distance between human beings . . . is it getting closer as well?
Please never abandon your loved ones
Never Say U R Busy When They Really Need You …
You May Have The Entire World At Your Feet…..
But You Might Be The Only World To Them….
A Moment of negligence might break the very heart which loves you thru all odds..
Before you say something just remember..It takes a moment to Break but an entire life to make… To Live Use Heart And to Survive use Brains.
Then Life would be a paradise Unfurling only Love Joy and Happiness… …
Spread this message to everyone you Love and Help them Live life and not merely Survive…..
June 15, 2012 § Leave a comment
Is character less, corrupt, feudal lord sons are capable of being a good leader?
In a country such as Pakistan, is definitely an important factor for 98% population who,s living on average and blow average line,where corruption and elite class ancestors politics ,where the Establishment occupied on democracy where Feudal are trying to Imposed their son and grand son as a future leader…are they really eligible to lead us?
Lets start with the Bilawal Bhuto Zardai ( Son of President and Co-Chairman of PPP)
I am going to tell you why Bilawal is not worthy of a leader.
1. He is a 21 year old kid who spent only 9 years of his whole life in this country he wishes to rule one day.
2. He is a privileged feudal lord who spent his whole life in excess luxury. I want to ask this kid has he even spent one minute of his life in load shedding? Has he ever been inside a public school in Pakistan where children often sit on the ground?
Has he ever been to a public hospital in this country where people are piling on top of each other?
Has he ever had no water in his house?
Has he ever have to drive his car over a broken road?
Has he ever suffered like we Pakistanis suffer daily under his fathers rule.
PML-N chief Nawaz Sharif is backing his nephew Hamza Shahbaz to become the president of party’s Punjab chapter in a move that would ‘formally introduce’ the family’s next generation in national politics.
Hamza, who is one of the two sons of Punjab Chief Minister Shahbaz Sharif, is currently a Member National Assembly (MNA) and the only youth member of the Sharif family active in politics,
A one girl,Ayesha Ahad, who claimed to be wife of Hamza Shahbaz, Ayesha Ahad Malik told to media that she will continue to pursuit Hamza Shahbaz until she get justice, she said why Nawaz Sharif an Shahbaz Sharif are not listening her? She said that Hamza Shahbaz guards also know her and she will continue to follow Hamza.
Prime Minister Son Ali Mosa Gilani
Ali Mosa Gilani earned 7o billion rupees by importing a prohibited chemical (afii drain)in Pakistan. Even though this chemical has worldwide ban.
Dr Arsalan Iftikhar, Son of Chief Justice Iftikhar Mohammad Chaudhry
A suo moto notice taken on allegations that Dr Arsalan Iftikhar had been doled out Rs300 to 400 million by property tycoon Malik Riaz
I also want to know what is so special about them which makes them a “LEADER” having a particular last name does not make you a leader. He has no connection to this land except its people serve to fill his bank account. they are not my leader neither is Moonis Elahi, Hamza Shahbaz or Maryam Nawaz,bilawal,and other son of a ……………..
Yesterday I watch one of leaked TV talk show video…after watching that I found the orignal Haram ZAade….and this words actually completed my title of blog now.(i sorry i didn’t able to find a better word for them )
I wonder which country where i ware. there are more like mubashir and meher in the media industry, and all of these anchors start their performances from 7:00 pm evening till 12:00 am midnight. almost on all T.V channels depicting their loyalty to their paymasters.
Problem is with us ‘common people’. Why do we expect so much and consider these anchors ‘Patriots’. They are simply doing their job and selling their ‘words’ just like actors do their best to make their drama a hit. Its a fake glamorous world of media full of disguise. We must not expect too much from either military or judiciary or politicians or businessmen or media men as ‘Villains’ and ‘Corrupt’ exist everywhere. Even if we perform a clean up operation, 1% germs would still be left as you see in ‘Safeguard’ soap ad.
Media is one of the power centers and therefore one of the most corrupt. The real face has come to surface. It is high time that the public delivers the justice and boycotts these anchors instead of waiting either the God or the judiciary to deliver the justice. Does what is within your reach and don’t wait for the next birth and expect Allah to do what u can do very well?
Shame on such anchors and this is not enough; they should be made accountable by the judiciary now. No more gates should be opened except Media gate.Recommend !!
(Note: Accept my apologize for using a slang words in Urdu)